Why Not All Doula Trainings Are The Same

When people first start looking into doula training, they often assume all courses will be roughly the same. A few days of learning, some practice, and you walk away ready to support families. But the truth is: not all doula trainings are created equal.

Here are some important differences to consider.

1. What They Teach and What They Don’t

Some trainings focus narrowly on birth physiology and practical support. That’s important, of course, but doulas do far more than fetch water and rub backs. The deeper question is: does the course prepare you to listen, advocate, and hold space in a way that honours the whole person?

At Abuela Doulas, we go beyond the basics. We train doulas to navigate the emotional, social, and systemic realities of birth. That includes preparing you to support people who are marginalised, ignored, or dismissed in healthcare.

2. The Values Underneath

Every course has an ethos, whether it’s stated or not. Some are rooted in tradition, others in activism, others in pure pragmatism. What matters is whether those values align with your own.

At Abuela Doulas, our ethos is grounded in reproductive justice, anti-racism, and integrity. We believe doulas are not just birth companions but agents of cultural change, creating safer, more inclusive spaces for families.

3. The Support Afterwards

Training ends, but your journey as a doula is only beginning. Some providers send you out into the world with little more than a certificate. Others offer ongoing mentorship and community.

We believe that a doula’s growth continues long after the first training. That’s why Abuela Doulas offers continued mentorship, peer support, and connection. You’re not just buying a course. You’re joining a family.

Not all doula trainings are the same. Look closely at what’s taught, what values underpin the work, and how you’ll be supported afterwards.

If you’re looking for a doula training in the UK that is inclusive, justice-centred, and rooted in integrity, Abuela Doulas might be the home you’ve been searching for. 

What Choosing A Course Is About

Choosing a doula course isn’t only about convenience or cost. It’s about finding a training that aligns with your values and equips you not just with knowledge, but with the integrity and confidence to walk alongside families.

At Abuela Doulas, we offer UK-based doula training rooted in justice, inclusion, and compassion. If you’re ready to begin your journey, you can find out more here 

Mars Lord is the founder of Abuela Doulas, offering inclusive, justice-centred doula training in the UK. With over 20 years’ experience, she guides new doulas to support families with confidence, compassion, and integrity.

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