WHAT DOES IT REALLY MEAN TO TRAIN AS A DOULA IN THE UK?

“Doula training” covers a lot of ground. There are short online introductions, lengthy in-person programmes, niche specialisms, and everything in between. If you are trying to work out whether doula training is right for you, and what it actually involves, then this is worth reading before you commit to anything.

 

What doula training covers

A comprehensive doula training programme covers the practical and relational skills of supporting people through pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period.

 

At its core, that means: what birth physiology looks like, how to provide support in labour, what postnatal recovery involves, how to support infant feeding, when and how to signpost, and what informed consent means in practice.

 

It also means understanding your scope and role: what a doula does and does not do, how you sit in relation to midwives, obstetricians and other practitioners, and what it means to advocate for someone without overstepping.

 

And it means understanding the system you are working in: the maternity care landscape in the UK, the race divide in health outcomes, and where doulas fit in addressing it.

 

This is the baseline. Good training goes further.

 

What Abuela Doulas training asks of you personally

This is where Abuela Doulas is different from a lot of other programmes.

 

The training does not just ask you to learn about birth. It asks you to reckon with birth; your own, and that of the communities you come from.

 

Trainees undertake ancestral birth research: looking at the birthing history and traditions of their own heritage. It is not theoretical. It changes how you understand the work and how you show up for the people you will support.

 

There is also birth story work. For many trainees, the training room is the first place they have spoken about their own birth experiences, what they felt, what happened, what they have been carrying. The room holds that.

 

One graduate, a trained midwife with years of clinical experience, came to Abuela Doulas specifically to unlearn. She described leaving with new ways of showing up for her clients and a clearer understanding of her own assumptions. A midwife. Unlearning. In a doula training.

 

That is what this work asks of you.

 

What you build in the room

Confidence is the thing people most want before they start, and it is almost never what people arrive with.

 

One graduate named it directly: she left with “courage, confidence and comradery.” She did not bring all three with her on day one. She built them in the training.

 

The cohorts are small and intimate by design. The quality of connection that develops in a room of that size, where people are doing real personal work alongside the academic content, is what makes the community that follows last as long as it does.

What comes after graduation

Graduates remain part of an active community. There is an ongoing WhatsApp group full of first births attended, new practices launched, hard days in the system, and people lifting each other through the work. There are virtual meetups. Mentoring from experienced practitioners is available.

 

This is not a graduation-and-goodbye model. The people who trained with Abuela Doulas in 2020 are still there.


Confidence is the thing people most want before they start, and it is almost never what people arrive with.

Who this training is for

Abuela Doulas training is open intake, no clinical background required. It is available in cohort, self-paced and hybrid formats to accommodate people with families, jobs, health conditions and complicated lives.

 

It is particularly built for those who want to support Black and brown families, who understand that the access problem in birthwork starts with who gets trained, and want to be part of changing that.

 

If you feel the call to birthwork then the link is below.

 

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