Becoming a doula is not just about learning skills — it’s about stepping into a way of being. And with so many doula training providers in the UK, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Which course will give you what you really need? How do you choose between them?
Here are some things to look for as you explore your options.
The first thing most people notice is the format. Do you want to learn online, in person, or a mix of both? Some doula trainings in the UK are delivered intensively over a few days, while others stretch out over weeks or months.
Think about what suits your lifestyle. Do you want the immersion of a short, in-person course, or the flexibility of online evenings spread out over time? How much space do you need to process and reflect?
Cost also matters. Courses vary widely, so check whether there are payment plans or reduced rates available. The right course isn’t always the cheapest, but it should be financially accessible to you.
This part is often overlooked, but it may be the most important. Every doula training provider has an ethos, even if they don’t name it. Some courses focus only on the mechanics of supporting birth. Abuela Doulas, weave in values of justice, inclusion, and advocacy alongside the practical.
Ask yourself: does this training reflect the kind of doula you want to become? If you care about anti-racism, reproductive justice, or working inclusively with people from all communities, you’ll want a training that lives those commitments, not just mentions them in passing.
Doula work can be deeply rewarding, but it can also be challenging. Training is just the beginning. What happens after the course ends?
The best doula training programmes in the UK offer mentorship, peer networks, and opportunities for ongoing learning. When you’re sitting with your first clients, you don’t want to feel like you’ve been left to figure it all out alone.
At Abuela Doulas, every participant becomes part of our wider family. That means support, encouragement, and honest reflection long after the initial training is complete.
Choosing a doula course isn’t only about convenience or cost. It’s about finding a training that aligns with your values and equips you not just with knowledge, but with the integrity and confidence to walk alongside families.
At Abuela Doulas, we offer UK-based doula training rooted in justice, inclusion, and compassion. If you’re ready to begin your journey, you can find out more here
Mars Lord is the founder of Abuela Doulas, offering inclusive, justice-centred doula training in the UK. With over 20 years’ experience, she guides new doulas to support families with confidence, compassion, and integrity.
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